Hey man, what you say is so true, i'm engaged at the moment myself, so moving towards a very similiar position that you were once in.
It does feel like over the past year i've lost touch with my past. Not so much my close family (mum & bro) or fiance but more so with friends from my home area & with simply being young & having a bit of fun. Most of my weekends end up being spent sitting around wondering about what to do next, what job next, when the next bill is, etc etc. I'm always thinking about the next destination so much I think i forget to live.
Wise words from you my friend, i'll take it on board. True about no regrets, i remember when I was 18 years old, only bloody 2 years ago, but feels longer, I recieved a considerable lump sum from an estate & rather than do good things with it, I whittled away, partied hard and generally had a complete ball on my year off after school.
If I went back, there is no way I would trade that time in to do something else. Ultimately, as I said earlier I want to be free, being able to just f*** off and take 18 months off would be perfect, & knowing that it wouldn't hurt my money situation would also be great, but I guess i've gotta decide whether i'll sacrifice my youth, which could be argued as the best years in favour of my later life.
Personally though, I feel like an old man in a young body, all the guys at work here that are my age think i'm in my late 20's. I'm kinda half half, I do silly young guy stuff 50% of the time, then think like a wise old man the other 50%. I Make it hard for myself going from extreme to extreme.
I actually look forward to older age as I see it as a chance to enjoy the fruits of life, and knowing that i'll be fairly well off by then gives me comfort, but i'm in no rush to get there. Guess i'll take a step back and look at my life a bit
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reminds me of me when i was Josh's age, young IT nerd, I was married to another young IT nerd, doing really well in business.. Then when I got divorced I realised how much I was concentrating on career and work rather than friends and family. I quit my job.. tradded the Aprillia on the Kwak ZX12 the next day and took about 18 months off work.. financially not so smart but to this day I have no regrets. The more you have the more it costs you to protect what you have. Financially, physically and emotionaly (did i spell any of those correctly?)
Now, got to send off that $1400 worth of busa insurance, just another cost generated by having enough money to buy yet another toy
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