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18-06-2010, 07:30am

Hi to all. This is the other half of busa666. I am so overwhelmed with the support and condolances that you have shown us. It is so comforting to know that you, who we have never met before, have been so caring and I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.

PS. and yes I also ride the busa

**rob** · 18-06-2010, 08:08am

Its always sad to hear when this happens, many thoughts cross your mind as to why or what could i have done to prevent it. I'm sorry to hear of your loss and after experiencing similar loss it makes you cherish the ones you do have. Good luck in the future, whoever said third times the charm obviously doesn't know how hard it is to lose twice before...

**BabyBusa** · 18-06-2010, 08:09am

(18-06-2010, 07:30am)busa666 Wrote: Hi to all. This is the other half of busa666. I am so overwhelmed with the support and condolances that you have shown us. It is so comforting to know that you, who we have never met before, have been so caring and I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.

PS. and yes I also ride the busa

1hotbusa and I send our condolences to busa666 and his 'other half' at this sad time.

What others have said will help, give your baby a name and talk to someone about your loss.

We are all part of the Busa family here Grouphug

, so you will never be alone.

**Fifi_Sutho** · 18-06-2010, 08:27am

The feeling of loss is huge...... Im am deeply sorry for you loss and can only send my thoughts and prayers in your time of need..... Be there for each other to try to ease the pain.... Give your precious baby a name as they were loved by you the moment you found out you were going to be parents.... Take each moment as it comes...

xoxoxo

18-06-2010, 09:56am

Very sorry for your lose folks....

My wife and I have been there twice before as well...Is hard..
But stay strong and lean on each other..

From our experience it's very easy to drift apart and feel alone in this time of grief.

Look to each other.. your both hurting.

All the best.

Ash

**Volvi** · 18-06-2010, 07:33pm

My sincerest condolonces on your loss....but dont give up, life goes on and please God you will get there.

**skin** · 18-06-2010, 07:55pm

So sorry for your lose,your pain must be so great at this time,my thoughts are with you both,LOVE for each other will get you though this.

Adrian.

19-06-2010, 12:26pm

(18-06-2010, 08:27am)Fifi_Sutho Wrote: The feeling of loss is huge...... Im am deeply sorry for you loss and can only send my thoughts and prayers in your time of need..... Be there for each other to try to ease the pain.... Give your precious baby a name as they were loved by you the moment you found out you were going to be parents.... Take each moment as it comes...

xoxoxo

+1

Couldn't have said it better. Stay strong.

**Ozboc** · 19-06-2010, 02:03pm

:(

**Toecutter** · 19-06-2010, 05:02pm

Also been there twice, and I agree with many of the other comments. My wife and I now have two girls so please know that you will both get through this. One day at a time mate. Sometimes one minute at a time but keep your friends near you and support eachother. Very sorry for your loss.
As bitter as it sounds, everything seems to happen for a reason. Debatable but I think the argument has merit.
Be strong mate, you will both learn to get through it.
Warmest regards,
Tom.

19-06-2010, 07:26pm

I am so sorry cant even imagine what you both must be feeling. Be strong both of you.

**FastPhil** · 19-06-2010, 11:38pm

Sorry for your loss, praying for you both, the bub has gone straight to heaven.

Phil

**Vellaterra** · 20-06-2010, 12:09am

Been there myself on twice in a row. I remember feeling hollow and empty inside without anybody to talk to about it. I just kept it inside myself whilst I supported my wife through her trouma.I now have a miricle child and a surprise child and they are the most preciouse two in my life.

You as a Man, a Husband have a right to greeve, by speaking out gets it out there, off your chest. Be proud.

When I bought my Hayabusa, my two kids were with me, then they were with me when I picked her up and took her home, (my dad in the car with the kids following). They saw first hand how happy I was since my marrage break up. I have been seperated for the last 2 1/2yrs and I bought my busa christmas 2008. The same day I bought my busa home I pulled my two kids together and to prove how much I loved them, I told them that I rather put a boot into the Busa rather than live without them.

All I am saying is dont give up, try and BLOODY try again. You will be a better parent, only because YOU know what it takes to have a family of your own.

I love my two kids, more than anything in life. I have appreciated having them from the first day and have never given up on them.

I never will forget what could have been, but I have two of my own......Keep the Faith. All will work out for the both of you.

20-06-2010, 06:31pm

(20-06-2010, 12:09am)Vellaterra Wrote: Been there myself on twice in a row. I remember feeling hollow and empty inside without anybody to talk to about it. I just kept it inside myself whilst I supported my wife through her trouma.I now have a miricle child and a surprise child and they are the most preciouse two in my life.

You as a Man, a Husband have a right to greeve, by speaking out gets it out there, off your chest. Be proud.

When I bought my Hayabusa, my two kids were with me, then they were with me when I picked her up and took her home, (my dad in the car with the kids following). They saw first hand how happy I was since my marrage break up. I have been seperated for the last 2 1/2yrs and I bought my busa christmas 2008. The same day I bought my busa home I pulled my two kids together and to prove how much I loved them, I told them that I rather put a boot into the Busa rather than live without them.

All I am saying is dont give up, try and BLOODY try again. You will be a better parent, only because YOU know what it takes to have a family of your own.

I love my two kids, more than anything in life. I have appreciated having them from the first day and have never given up on them.

I never will forget what could have been, but I have two of my own......Keep the Faith. All will work out for the both of you.

i have stayed strong for her thanks all for wisdom. and support it has been nothing short of amazing .. i was a bouncer for 14 years in surfers
and fought kickboxing and cage fighting never back down from fight not about start now have been knocked down but not out.
this has bought us closer together and will have a little busa baby one day Pi_thumbsup

**Missy_Moo** · 20-06-2010, 09:10pm

Both of you are in our thoughts & prayers, the loss of another little precious life is beyond words.
I know what the government says is hard, but this is a precious little life that was cherished from its first moment.

This is a time to talk and share & plenty of hugs.

>Hugz to you both< xXx

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